Its True.....

out running this morning- mind busy with thoughts for the day ahead- idling along hoping it won't rain on me. Hoping I can make it up this next hill. Hoping I can get it all done today. Why have I set so many tasks? When will we make time for the small projects and pile on the kitchen counter I want to show you? What about the cards and the cooking and the laundry? What about the odds and ends of things that sit and always wait for another day?

Last hill came up ahead- and a favorite old song- "Yellow" by Coldplay- a great beat to double time to and pound up the final hill (by pound I mean jog faster- not a rocket here- just an out of shape mom- but still proud of me) Coldplay sings...."Look at the stars, Look how they shine for you, And everything you do..."

Round the corner, limp to a stop, stretching legs down the street... Here comes our sweet small home.... Through the gate..... release the dog.... and through the front door to cheers of "MAMA!" and two glowing faces as Coldplay belts out "...for you I'd bleed myself Dry... For you I'd bleed myself Dry......"

And you both jump on me- or scoot rather for lil Dot.... and all the thoughts of the busy day melt away... and I can just sit- ipod still beating in my ears... I can take this moment and make it last all day..... My whole life even.

"Its true look how they shine for you look how they shine for you look how they shine for you look how they shine for you look how they shine for you look how they shine look at the stars look how they shine for you..."

Fuzz

What eyes you have! To see so much- to speak so little- but then reveal..... that you already know that dandelions are for blowing....... Are you only 13 months old?

Do you know that they are for wishing too? And if I look into those eyes- can I see all that you wish to be? That a lap is Always ready and waiting? That Mama doesn't need to do "just one more thing" before bending down to pick you up? That cold milk comes at the first beckon? That the grownups stop giving you sips of lemonade just to see you Squinch up that little face at the tartness? (oh how we giggle- I'm sorry Little Dot!)

Mommy has so many wishes for you- as you purse those lips and wetly blow into your first fuzzy dandelions. One hundred wishes. One thousand wishes.

I thought about making you a list.

But maybe they all come down to just something about... resilience and fortitude... and self assurance... and strength. Always believing that wishes can come True?

There. I wished it for you.

Landings

Where does it come from? This intrinsic belief that a leap will land her on her feet? No sense of impending doom- freedom of form and motion. It may be tall. It may be sharp. It may be a rough place to land. And yet she knows that her body can carry her over and above and onto her feet- with one big JUMP of motion she goes into the unknown. Again and again.

I've never been a worrier either. I don't believe in the waste of time- the energy- the forceful act of making oneself miserable without even knowing whats to come. Why invent some possible parallel universe in which walls are crashing down, microorganisms are spraying out, and dread dread dread rules ones every move?

How much simpler to just Choose to be Happy. To Choose to Try. To Choose to Look Forward To all Life has to offer.

To Believe that Happiness is ours just for the taking. And who knows where the Next Smile may be coming from?

So why not at least Try?

So I sit in the grass and let her feet take her. Her Sure Feet. Her Strong Feet. HER Feet.

She Believes in herself.

And I believe in her too.

Mama Hands

You are truly following everything I do aren't you? Look now your small hands in big "glubs" Planting a garden of Tall Tall Grass.

You watched mama. And now your hands tell me the story of what you saw. And with tender care you are nurturing your pot of pretend (but very well loved and nurtured) seeds and dirt and grand imagination.

In a little while my hands will wash yours- and I'll lead you to dinner- and later we'll celebrate another pee pee on the potty. (hands up! Hooray!) My hands will lovingly (gently I promise!) Wash the bits of garden from your hair. My hands will wrap you in your flower towel. I'll button you up in the softest princess pajamas. Leaving a button open so you can rub your belly button.... silly girl. And I promise we'll snug- and we'll kiss and we'll laugh- and my hands will flutter all over you in hugs and we'll say our love sayings to one another. And there will be one more kiss blown.. and one more! And one more- and I'll catch em catch em! I promise!

And I'll remember how closely you watch these hands of mine. And I promise to always use my hands like kisses. So you don't catch anything but.

Journey not destination?

I know I know I know! You want to do it yourself! Look here kid- this is dually difficult for your poor mother. I not only have to watch you grow up before my eyes. I also have to endure whats sure to be a glorious mess. Deep breath. Okay kiddo.

Go for it.

Is that spoon even making it to your mouth?

Are your HANDS even making it to your mouth?

Having fun? I have to admit. This is a hoot.

There you GO!!!! Get that Yogurt!!!


You lil stinker! You know exactly what you're doing don't you? he he

Don't you worry priss. The real fun begins when I strip you naked and stick you in the sink- ALLEY OOP!

Squinch

This is Dot. And I swear to you- everyone says it- there was never a Dottier Dot than this one. Whats in a name? Everything this go around! A sense of humor from the day she was born. Before she smiled awake she would giggle in her sleep- her whole body rocking and her face squinched up- JUST like this picture. So good natured. So inquisitive. Witha great big open mouthed kiss for anyone who will have it.

Lots of focus on that busy big sister lately. And Squinch face has squinched her heart out at all of it.

Dot- you may be tiny- but you are never side lined. Never not right at my side- making me laugh along with you.

Heartache

Whenever anything hurts- her head, her tummy, her throat- you name it- Annie will say "I have a heartache" Its the sweetest- and saddest- as I try to puzzle through what shes actually feeling and figure out of shes sick- or maybe just needs a snuggle.

Last week my Baby Girl turned 3. Not a big number in the grander scheme of Birthdays. But for some reason it was a truly difficult one for this momma's heart. I was a wreck all week making party preparations, thinking over the details, loading on way more tasks than made sense for one childs birthday party. I scoured the city for sword shaped toothpicks, for starfruit, for a baby stroller with two seats for her dolls. My heart was aching. (and come to think of it- so were my feet and my head!) But then Wednesday night- on the eve of her birthday I sat down and wrote to her. And had a good long cry- and was able to get to crux of the matter.

It wasn't worry that her party be perfect. It wasn't worry that she wouldn't have the most delightful time with her friends. It wasn't about the tiny details I was obsessing over for no good reason.

I had a heartache. My tiny bean. The little squish (who when her belly was full of milk would ARCH her back and STREEEEETCH out long- and I would finally be able to see the bottoms of those huge chubby cheeks and I would lean in and kissem kissme kissem- so soft and pink) My nugget- was no longer a baby- no longer a toddler- but quite the self composed little Girl.

And boy- did I need a snuggle.

Ring around the rosy

Sitting at a Garden Birthday party- watching the girls in their Little dresses- like living flowers running through the grass. And exactly how many cookies can one girl eat? Who can sing the loudest? A few stickers- a little lemonade- a perfect afternoon.

Pocket full of Posies indeed.

Welcome to the Blogosphere Baby Girl

Whats that sound I hear? The trumpets welcoming me to the wide world of an online blog? Ten years behind the rest? Or the Plop- of another Mother entering that same ocean- another Mom talking too much about her small small pond.

Whichever- it matters not to me- I can't hear you for the sound of laughter. The light dancing tune of two girls growing up- busy with our everyday.

I named my blog for this favorite quote- its the one I try to live by-

"Half the Joy in Life is in the Little Things taken on the run. Let us Run if we Must. But let us Keep our hearts Young and our Eyes Open That Nothing Worth our while should Escape us."- Victor Cherbuliez

(who was a 19th century French novelist- and I'm sure he didn't have my habit of Capitalizing words he thought needed it for emphasis- or my horrid habit of run on sentences and - dashes.)

So there it is- the basis for my Blog debut- my premise. And the hope that it might act like Gretel's path of pebbles- and lead me back one day through the memories- so I can always go visit - not the birthdays- not the achievements- but sand in our toes, the homemade pizza, the bundle of weeds in a sweaty hand- the small smiles- and the easy laughter that make this Life our Home.